Love And Marriage In Developed Countries

General characteristics of developed countries

Most developed countries share common characteristics such as a thriving economy, an aging population, high death rates, low marriage rates, and low birth rates.

The general trend of citizens in these countries

For most developed countries, they often do not tend to have children or get married. Their time is mostly for work and career. so they are quite busy, do not have time to think about other things. In addition to time for work, they will spend their free time for the fun to relax or love outside marriage.

What they care about most are career and enjoyment

In fact, they do not value having children but what they care more about his career and enjoyment. They simply want to live a happy life, not having to worry about anything, the only dream is to discover life, experience everything and enjoy the right life and live your life. They also do not want their ties and accountability to other relationships.

The way that citizens in developed countries reward themselves

Although the average monthly salary of a person in developed countries can feed many people. But instead of being for families, they often give themselves to reward themselves and encourage themselves. They just want to do what they like and as long as they feel comfortable. because their work is quite stressful and busy. Once they have free time, they want to prioritize themselves first. The work keeps repeating every hour, every day, even every month, every year. Gradually make them more respectful of their time. During holidays, they often travel with family and friends, enjoy life and enjoy the maximum time they have on holiday.

Their enthusiasm at work and their desire for their work

Once they start working, they will work hard and relentlessly, do everything to get the most effective work. As for games, they are equally enthusiastic. in them, there is a clear line between work and private life. That’s why their quality of life is so high and scientific. they always poured their energy and enthusiasm into what they were doing and always wanted everything to be under control and the results must be as expected. always force ourselves in the framework to achieve success and to achieve a sense of achievement. For them, happiness is living to work and play hard, live enthusiastically without regret.

In love, they are also very enthusiastic

In love, they are also very enthusiastic. There is always a free and liberal way of thinking because of the influence of their culture. It is also because of the influence of the same culture that they soon had the same thoughts and the same influence so the problem of not wanting to get married was soon assimilated in the thoughts of these advanced citizens.

The responsibility associated with marriage is not what they are pursuing, but it is understanding and experience

They do not value marriage as the eastern people. They are always thinking about this issue, not putting power or forcing themselves to associate with lifelong rights and obligations. they don’t want any attachment. They want to discover everything, improve their knowledge and experience in life.

Experience is also a way for them to know about love

The love for them most stopped at the experience level. they also do not care if the sentiment is deep or not, as long as they love the other person hard and clearly define equality and mutual respect. It is a condition to maintain the relationship. when they want to end the relationship, it is when they do equality with each other, saying goodbye in fun.

Thoughts and habits reduce the rate of marriage and childbirth

Because these thoughts and habits have reduced the rate of marriage and childbirth. Make the population aging rate increase and especially increase the social welfare policy for the elderly. This situation has not only happened in developed countries but now has affected other developing countries. affect the thinking of the majority of young people today. In their thoughts soon thought that if I can support myself, I can freely live my life and not need to get married. They also want a life unbound.

Staying true to culture partly increases the rate of marriage

We do not need to care whether or not oriental culture includes both developed and developing countries. What we care about is that, more or less, it has a big impact on the change of its inherent culture. Therefore, always live with the culture of your country, live with the responsibility that every person should have. For culture to not be lost and to create our next generation, to enrich the country and to inherit the good values that the previous generation left.

Marriage and childbirth are the keys to solving the problem of population aging

No matter how Westerners think about love and marriage, it all has a significant impact on society, especially population issues. Be the one who thinks about the future of the country and learns to be responsible. Expressing your own bravery, not being selfish and trying your best in your ability. Just love and marry the person you love to create the best gifts you can inherently create with the one you love. The decision belongs to you.

Each Person Has Three Lives

The Judgment of each person’s three lives

Most people think that they have only one life. it is personal life and only lives for that life. But not many people know that, in fact, everyone has 3 lives. it is life for the community, private life, and secret life.

Life for the community

People who have a life for the community are people who interact with others, know how to look outward. these are social relationships, conversations with many different people. And all of our activities that happen outside of society belong to everyone’s public life.

Social life is the widest life

When we do activities such as communication, helping others, buying and selling activities, making friends and even traveling, it means that we are living the largest life, life belongs to society.

This is also the life that consumes you the most time

We spend most of our time on this kind of life because most of the time we are devoted to outside activities. Even when we’re on the street, at school, at work, or at the company … we’re all living in that life. So it is not surprising that this is the widest life, spending your most time.

The second kind of life is private

The second kind of life is everyone’s own life. it belongs to you personally, it belongs to this kind of life. It includes everything you do in your free time like watching movies, listening to music, reading books … we call them private lives that no one has the right to invade.

Private life is an inseparable part of your life

Although private life does not take as much time as public life, it still plays a very important role. that is the individual needs and necessities of each person, which is an inseparable part.

Benefits and important meanings that second life brings

Private life gives us the spirit, giving us energy and time to prepare ourselves well in every way. It is time to relieve stress after a hard working day. that is the most important meaning of the second kind of life – life after social contact.

The last type of life is the most important inner life

And the last kind of life that doesn’t belong to reality is the most important life throughout your life. that is the inner, secret life deep inside each person.

The third life is a place that reflects the inner human mind

It is a place that reflects the inner heart of the hidden person, which is the residence of the soul. is a place for people to hide many secrets that do not want to let others know the most. is where you allow yourself to express every thought whether positive or negative, the most subjective evaluations of things you see or hear and things that are still going on around you.

This life is the only place you can’t deceive yourself

You know, sometimes you may not completely use the truth in the world outside of society or in your own life, but the only thing you can’t deceive is your heart.

The concealment of the truth for a long time causes you to be unable to express your true feelings

Sometimes, the words you say are not the same as what you are thinking. That said, you are deceiving your heart. One question is: why don’t you show your true feelings outside and hide them deeper and deeper? And then one day, you will not have the courage to say it.

Expressing emotions is a way to nourish the soul

To change that, from now on learn how to express your true feelings, learn how to express your thoughts to encourage the spirit. The important thing is don’t try to suppress your emotions so that your soul can be liberated. It is the best way to nourish the soul so that there is no longer a burden to suppress emotions and to become a richer inner person. From there, you will be able to live with your true self, not always looking for different reasons to advocate, to deal with those around you. Only so, the distance between people and new people is completely lost.

A rich inner person always lives up to the present emotions

A rich inner person always knows how to reconcile all aspects of life, always living in the right emotions at the present time, always pursuing the values of the beautiful life and doing many useful things for the society.

A complete life is created from these three lives

In this world, no one will live with just one of the three lives. because only when you live these three lives, does it make you a complete life. So, live with your own life and master it, all decisions belong to you.

Do Not Lose The Opportunity

Doubt about what you feel most regretful about

Has anyone ever asked you what you regret most ?. And of course, when that happens, you don’t expect it to happen again. For me, what makes me feel the most regret is letting the opportunity slip away from my fingertips.

Why should I keep the opportunity and the cause of losing the opportunity

Life is like that, from the time when the universe had a big explosion to form the earth, all the things, and creatures that were born were predetermined. People who meet and do what is already defined by the universe. So what people have to go through is not entirely held by me. Losing your own good chance may be due to accidentally losing, not knowing how to hold and not knowing the appearance of the opportunity.

The opportunities I lost

I have lost many opportunities. Even if I lost it for the first time, I still couldn’t draw the experience for the next time. Perhaps it was just because of my own disrespect, not confidence and inability to recognize that I had lost it. Sometimes it is an opportunity to get good grades when you know the answer well, sometimes it’s time to talk to successful people who lack confidence or simply talk to other new people.

Feeling sorry for losing the opportunity

These are opportunities presented, trained to mature and an opportunity to accumulate life experiences. Although I don’t remember how it was, I still remember the feeling of regret losing that opportunity.

Experience and lessons for every opportunity

As I grew older, I realized that the feeling of regret made me stronger, more courageous and more confident. And the lesson for every opportunity is to know it in time. Train acumen to easily recognize the appearance of opportunity and be ready to receive it at any time. If you want to have real success and opportunity, don’t be afraid to experience it. That is the best way to ensure that the opportunity does not slip out of reach.


Noise exists in my life

I am living in a noisy environment, facing it every day. I just felt the peace from waking up in the early morning until seven in the morning. At that time everything returned to its orbit, noisy began to appear.

Noise is a part of my life

My house is a typical type of noise house, it is the wood workshop business. Every day must work with machines so there is also a lot of noise generated. living in that environment makes me get used to it, consider it as part of my life. Although I’m used to the noise of machines, I still like the feeling of quieter.

The importance and undeniable drawbacks of noise

Every month, workers only get a day off on the first day and that day is also the most peaceful day of the month. I do not want to deny the role of this type of noise because it represents work, money, effort and also an opportunity for people who want to experience and want to make a living, but not noisy at all It’s also good because it affects the quality of life of many people.

what carpenters have to trade to continue this work

In order to maintain this work, carpenters have to spend a lot of effort when they are healthy because they not only suffer from the pressure of noise but also breathe in a lot of dirt, directly impacting on the skin and respiratory and lungs.

Joy and the most precious thing a carpenter has

Even so, this job brings them joy, a solid place and above all, that’s a job. That is respectable.

Long Sleep

Perspective on sleep and its role

It is said that sleep is a temporary death, every time you wake up is a revival. Every day we repeat it as an indispensable habit, it gives us the energy to start new lives, taking turns appearing every day.

The appearance of the truth behind long sleep

We are ordinary people who also live in a normal society but we don’t know that behind that peaceful life is a different life than a temporary one. Sometimes, that temporary death lasts only 8 hours but it can last for a decade or even a lifetime.

Causes and consequences behind long sleep

Behind that time was a momentary vigilance, only a second of a moment’s notice was enough to slow people down their whole life. from an ordinary person with a short sleep has now become a plant with long sleep.

The price is too expensive

It is worth it just because of a second of an inadvertent life in exchange for a lifetime. This is also an expensive price, but those who do not value their lives have to pay. if they were lucky, they could escape death or they would have to sleep for the rest of their lives.

Advice for neglect

So, from now on, love yourself and your family. Don’t let a distraction take a lifetime.

A Windy Sunday

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The first moment of the new day was the wind

I got up in the early Sunday morning to make the first moments of the new day. how surprising, it did not look like every day. it was windy and I like the wind.

I am immersed in another world, a world that awakens all my senses

I went to the yard to fell this fresh air. sometimes, I thought that I was sinking in another world- a peaceful world. I stretched my arms to embrace the space, felt the wind is coming and stimulated all senses. my body was swinging in the wind, an incredible sense of calmness.

Vivid nature picture with the first rays of sunshine

Took a deep breath to see the serenity, gentle. finally, the first rays of the early morning began to flicker, made space no longer rustic, but instead the scene more bustling, warmer by the light yellow rays of sunshine through each leaf.

That beautiful picture made me not want to leave

The scene was so beautiful, it brought a sense of coolness of the wind, the warmth of the sun. They combine well together so that anyone who is interested in it does not want to leave.


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